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	<title>Comments on: when mansplaining goes too far: buck angel on trans women</title>
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		<title>By: leftytgirl</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-821</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 23:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I&#039;m sure this 200+ pound dude faces the exact same issues and vulnerabilities that I do when it comes to dating in bars.  Jackass.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m sure this 200+ pound dude faces the exact same issues and vulnerabilities that I do when it comes to dating in bars.  Jackass.</p>
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		<title>By: KentCool</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-817</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 20:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hate how the author uses terms like mansplaining... it&#039;s funny that you somehow consider Buck on par with a cis-man in terms of mentality/social privilege. Buck is speaking what he knows from his experience, he&#039;s not saying trans people should stop using bars or whatever else instead of his dating website.. dumb [tr***y] feminazis..]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate how the author uses terms like mansplaining&#8230; it&#8217;s funny that you somehow consider Buck on par with a cis-man in terms of mentality/social privilege. Buck is speaking what he knows from his experience, he&#8217;s not saying trans people should stop using bars or whatever else instead of his dating website.. dumb [tr***y] feminazis..</p>
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		<title>By: erica, ascendant</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-567</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[erica, ascendant]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 09:51:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;For example, trans women who might hook up with a cis-gendered guy and then he goes home with her and finds out she has a penis and flips out and beats her up or kills her. That’s horrible, and I really believe by not disclosing it’s very disrespectful to the other person because they might not be into it and it makes them feel very freaked out about themselves.&quot;

Note the word &quot;women&quot;. Please also note if you read the whole article that that&#039;s really the one place Mr. Angel really focuses on trans women in the whole thing: victim-blaming us when violence is committed against us.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;For example, trans women who might hook up with a cis-gendered guy and then he goes home with her and finds out she has a penis and flips out and beats her up or kills her. That’s horrible, and I really believe by not disclosing it’s very disrespectful to the other person because they might not be into it and it makes them feel very freaked out about themselves.&#8221;</p>
<p>Note the word &#8220;women&#8221;. Please also note if you read the whole article that that&#8217;s really the one place Mr. Angel really focuses on trans women in the whole thing: victim-blaming us when violence is committed against us.</p>
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		<title>By: leftytgirl</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-565</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[leftytgirl]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 03:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can go along with that synopsis (regarding the response), however the original comment, around disclosure, was definitely transmisogynistic specific.

That having been said, I think the message needs to be stated to him in the simplest, most straightforward manner possible.  The point is that the &quot;trans women must disclose their status&quot; concept is used to justify violence against trans women.  It&#039;s a completely illegitimate concept, and instead of propping up the idea that the onus is on trans women to disclose in order to pre-empt violence (which may happen anyways), we should instead be focused on compelling society to de-pathologize trans women&#039;s bodies.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can go along with that synopsis (regarding the response), however the original comment, around disclosure, was definitely transmisogynistic specific.</p>
<p>That having been said, I think the message needs to be stated to him in the simplest, most straightforward manner possible.  The point is that the &#8220;trans women must disclose their status&#8221; concept is used to justify violence against trans women.  It&#8217;s a completely illegitimate concept, and instead of propping up the idea that the onus is on trans women to disclose in order to pre-empt violence (which may happen anyways), we should instead be focused on compelling society to de-pathologize trans women&#8217;s bodies.</p>
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		<title>By: leftytgirl</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-564</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[leftytgirl]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 02:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Uhhh... did you, like, read it?  I mean, there is a huge quote right in the middle, and it&#039;s all about violence against trans women in relation to sex.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Uhhh&#8230; did you, like, read it?  I mean, there is a huge quote right in the middle, and it&#8217;s all about violence against trans women in relation to sex.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Dentata</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-563</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy Dentata]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 00:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[He did post an apology, which is actually a non-apology: http://buckangel.tumblr.com/post/31233669495/buck-angel-is-not-trans-misogynist

Instead of admitting he misspoke and taking ownership of what he said, he&#039;s dodging responsibility by calling it a &quot;misinterpretation&quot;. He hasn&#039;t yet responded to any of my tweets, but has responded to a few other people. If he doesn&#039;t respond to me I&#039;m going to summarize what I said to him on Twitter (I&#039;ve sent a few more tweets than the three quoted above) in a more formal response to his non-apology.

He apparently thinks HE is the arbiter of whether he has said or done anything trans/misogynist, which is not how this works. Between the mansplaining and other issues arising in this dialogue, I think it&#039;s fair to say what&#039;s going on isn&#039;t specifically transmisogyny but more the good ol&#039; fashioned variety.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He did post an apology, which is actually a non-apology: <a href="http://buckangel.tumblr.com/post/31233669495/buck-angel-is-not-trans-misogynist" rel="nofollow">http://buckangel.tumblr.com/post/31233669495/buck-angel-is-not-trans-misogynist</a></p>
<p>Instead of admitting he misspoke and taking ownership of what he said, he&#8217;s dodging responsibility by calling it a &#8220;misinterpretation&#8221;. He hasn&#8217;t yet responded to any of my tweets, but has responded to a few other people. If he doesn&#8217;t respond to me I&#8217;m going to summarize what I said to him on Twitter (I&#8217;ve sent a few more tweets than the three quoted above) in a more formal response to his non-apology.</p>
<p>He apparently thinks HE is the arbiter of whether he has said or done anything trans/misogynist, which is not how this works. Between the mansplaining and other issues arising in this dialogue, I think it&#8217;s fair to say what&#8217;s going on isn&#8217;t specifically transmisogyny but more the good ol&#8217; fashioned variety.</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://leftytgirl.wordpress.com/2012/09/16/when-mansplaining-goes-too-far-buck-angel-on-trans-women/#comment-562</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Sep 2012 23:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All the people spoken about as being &#039;picked up&#039; in this article are men. No women. what am I missing?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All the people spoken about as being &#8216;picked up&#8217; in this article are men. No women. what am I missing?</p>
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